Throwing yourself in front of the face of death seems brave at first. But it’s actually cowardly and selfish. Without considering those that wish to protect you, you deliberately push your problems onto others, thus saving yourself from dealing with the problems you face as you take the “easy way out”. It saves your pride as you use the excuse of heroism. Remember that people want you safe. They don’t want you to give up so easily what they’ve been working to protect.